Rule 34 - What Are Your Dirty Talk Pet Peeves?

IrishTgirl

11/18/23 10:51AM

What Are Your Dirty Talk Pet Peeves?

So we all know what we do like, cuz we all like to share what it is we're into and what turns us on. But I'm curious, what about the other way around, what about specifically for dirty talk, rather than roleplay? I'll start with one of mine!

Unsolicited dicks pics! Pretty self explanatory, but not enough guys seem to get this. Just because I'm horny on a site like this does NOT mean I want to see your dick. For one I'm generally just into hentai, not the real deal. Second, most times I get an unsolicited dick pic, its a really unappetising one. Once got a pic where a guy literally had dirt n smegma in his pubic hair, disgusting!

So yuck to unsolicted dick pics.

Deviant_Fiend

11/18/23 11:01AM

For me it is the short, 2 word answers.
I know, we ain't RPing, but I guess I can expect a few lines? Being a bit more.. expressive even if direct and short!
Another being, asked to, or even forced to have one send pics/refs. A couple of times is fine, but I ain't wanna be sherlock in the middle of it all and search on something I haven't before and they are invested in, if that makes sense.

IrishTgirl

11/18/23 11:03AM

Deviant_Fiend said:
For me it is the short, 2 word answers.
I know, we ain't RPing, but I guess I can expect a few lines? Being a bit more.. expressive even if direct and short!
Another being, asked to, or even forced to have one send pics/refs. A couple of times is fine, but I ain't wanna be sherlock in the middle of it all and search on something I haven't before and they are invested in, if that makes sense.

"[insert nice detailed, but not too long paragraph describing some really hot fantasies]"
"yeah I like milfs"

I know that pain far too well ;-;

Deviant_Fiend

11/18/23 11:05AM

IrishTgirl said:

Deviant_Fiend said:
For me it is the short, 2 word answers.
I know, we ain't RPing, but I guess I can expect a few lines? Being a bit more.. expressive even if direct and short!
Another being, asked to, or even forced to have one send pics/refs. A couple of times is fine, but I ain't wanna be sherlock in the middle of it all and search on something I haven't before and they are invested in, if that makes sense.

"[insert nice detailed, but not too long paragraph describing some really hot fantasies]"
"yeah I like milfs"

I know that pain far too well ;-;

Exactly! Super annoying and worse than that, them being the embodiment of onomatopoeia. Just sending over sounds like "mhmm" or "Mmmm".
Yeah, sweetie, we ain't on a call here atm. *Facepalm*

Koudamare

11/18/23 11:05AM

People who don't communicate clearly or set strict boundaries are the worst for that type of thing, in my opinion.

It's also not very fun dirty chatting with somebody who's not taking any initiative or putting in any effort — all of the best dirty chats I've had were a ton of push and pull coming from both sides. ^^

IrishTgirl

11/18/23 11:16AM

Koudamare said:
People who don't communicate clearly or set strict boundaries are the worst for that type of thing, in my opinion.

On the contrary I find it very distasteful when people will overstep boundaries before you even get to establish them. Too many times ppl will mail me and their opening statement is how they wanna rape me or something :rolling_eyes: does my account look like something into that??? Guess they’re two sides of the same coin :p

Koudamare

11/18/23 11:19AM

IrishTgirl said:

Koudamare said:
People who don't communicate clearly or set strict boundaries are the worst for that type of thing, in my opinion.

On the contrary I find it very distasteful when people will overstep boundaries before you even get to establish them. Too many times ppl will mail me and their opening statement is how they wanna rape me or something :rolling_eyes: does my account look like something into that??? Guess they’re two sides of the same coin :p

I completely get that. If we're using non-con as an example, sure, there's a lot of people on here into that, but I think it's absolutely ridiculous to flat-out assume that someone would be a fan of that, unless you had explicit reason to believe so. That just screams of being chronically online and not knowing how normal people function.

That doesn't necessarily only go for non-con though, it can apply to a lot of kinks!

UglyI3astard

11/18/23 12:15PM

When they only want to do dirty-talk, and not get into a roleplay, even though they started with asking for one. They just want to get off on the setup for the roleplay.

1soap1

11/18/23 01:23PM

There are a few. I think the "lack of detail" thing has been covered pretty extensively already, but it always bugs me when I write just a few nice, horny charged sentences and get barely anything back. I could understand if it was several paragraphs, but a couple sentences... Come on.

Oddly enough I find the push to roleplay kind of irritating in itself. I'm not generally a roleplayer and I usually make it clear that I like the quicker and dirtier instant gratification of sexting, just because I'm usually horny and I like to have somebody to get off with. Annoys me when there's a push to make it into a full-on roleplay with a lot of setup. Boner killer, you know?

BBC_Spirit

11/18/23 01:43PM

IrishTgirl said:
So we all know what we do like, cuz we all like to share what it is we're into and what turns us on. But I'm curious, what about the other way around, what about specifically for dirty talk, rather than roleplay? I'll start with one of mine!

Unsolicited dicks pics! Pretty self explanatory, but not enough guys seem to get this. Just because I'm horny on a site like this does NOT mean I want to see your dick. For one I'm generally just into hentai, not the real deal. Second, most times I get an unsolicited dick pic, its a really unappetising one. Once got a pic where a guy literally had dirt n smegma in his pubic hair, disgusting!

So yuck to unsolicted dick pics.

Wait wait, people actually send dickpics in dirty talk sessions?? I'm honestly surprised to hear this. Sounds like people are throwing dickpics out like candy, lmao

1soap1

11/18/23 01:46PM

Oh, they do for sure. Some people will even lead with one.

OmenX

11/19/23 02:04AM

When my partner wants to dirty talk, but they actually meant I write walls of text and they respond with "Mmm~" over and over again

IrishTgirl

11/19/23 02:10AM

OmenX said:
When my partner wants to dirty talk, but they actually meant I write walls of text and they respond with "Mmm~" over and over again

dont even get me STARTED on that oml. I once dated a guy like that. It was just awful. Like I was nothing but his get off tool. and when he was done, he'd just leave me high and dry.

FanficFetishist

11/19/23 05:14AM

I don't like dirty talk in general. It just sounds silly to me.

Skeletor2.0

11/19/23 05:17AM

OmenX said:
When my partner wants to dirty talk, but they actually meant I write walls of text and they respond with "Mmm~" over and over again

When I read this all I feel is pain from the relatability of this post. The one word reply’s hurt.