Alright, so its no secret its an insecurity for a lot of guys who dont have average-large dicks. How do you deal with it? Do you believe people when they say size doesnt matter? Do you force yourself into a humiliation kink? Do you unwillingly go into cuckholdry/poly relationships because your partner isnt satisfied?

Personally, ive just tried to ignore it. Im not big at all, but ive been honest with every partner ive had before having sex so we didnt get to pulling down the pants and we get a "laughing" situation. Which honestly, has happened once to me.
Maybe im just down bad.
I get to 4 inches at most while hard, and too embarrassed to say when soft.

Not really. Mine's a good size.

It really doesn't fucking matter dude, only thing it affects is penetration and sex is way more than that, really the sexual experience can start hours before you reach even the bedroom so it legitimately barely matters how big you are so I don't even know what you want people to tell you, use toys if you feel so insecure, be the Batman of sex, he can't punch planets apart but he sure knows how to use gadgets.

Then again I'm fairly average so I don't struggle with such woes.

some women will have a preference for prodigious meat and that's fine just like how men have preferences of their own. If size was all any woman cared about we would all just fuck bad dragon dildos and not even bother with men. I don't remember the stat but something like 40% of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. Get your other skills up and you'll be fine sexually.

Bruh. Did you even read it or did you just skim it and feel to the need to flex?

I guess it really is that hard for people to read in a forum.

Another dickhead flexing that has never had these issues. Thank god.

I really appreciate the feedback.

All very true. Something to remember is that if things take a bad or uncomfortable turn, you're well within your rights to simply get up and leave, explanation optional.

You don’t even need your dick to be over 4 inches to please a women. There’s plenty of ways you could satisfy her (or him) like fingering, eating pussy like a pro, or just spanking cause I know some girls that had an orgasm just by getting they ass smacked. It’s all about foreplay

You're not asking the right people. This is a porn site, so really a pool of virgins lying about their dicks.

In the real world, most people don't give a flying fuck. They really don't. Unless you have an actual micropenis that can't be used. Dunno then.

Ima disagree wit you on that. There’s definitely a bunch of virgins on here but there’s still some things you could learn from other people.

I think most people with actual real world experience can see how laughable the takes some people here give, are. Unless you're experienced already, in which case you don't need it, you don't really know who's pulling things out of their ass.

True but I don’t think generalizing everyone is right. There might even be mfs wit experience that still give bad advice. Just saying, not everyone on here virgins. That’s all.

Well I'm virgin and from my point of view and what people write pretty much everywhere it's kind of obvious. I think "dick size doesn't matter" is polite lie to not hurt other persons feelings. I guess I'm insecure about my dick size because I think it's question of are you big or not. Simple as that because big dick is something both woman and men want. If it wasn't like that why people would use small dick as an insult? Sorry but let's be serious in terms of dick size you don't really hear all sizes are good etc. compared to for example breast sizes.

How do I deal with this? I don't know. To be honest right now I'm afraid of getting into relationships because for sure girl will not be virgin and I'm still one so that's first thing. Second would be since she would be no longer virgin I would think was her ex bigger than me? Did she like his dick better? etc. I endured a lot in my life and to be honest if I would get humiliated because of my dick I don't know what I would do...

Something that really irks me from ppl like you complaining about below average size is that you discard most ppls opinions and refuse to see any way that isnt your own, and when presented with advice from people larger than you, you simply become very frustrated.
Just chill out alright, nobody is actively here to shame you or make you feel bad