Rule 34 - Clitoral vs. Vaginal Pleasure Questionnaire

ferrousflora

03/08/21 10:01PM

Clitoral vs. Vaginal Pleasure Questionnaire

My latest jill-off session ended in an orgasm that definitely felt more driven by my penetrative toy than my clit vibe.

Anyone with eyes can see that the clitoris is the easiest and most reliable way to female orgasm, and men would do everyone a favor to acquaint themselves with it. However, that does not mean pleasure from penetration or vaginal orgasm is a myth - it's just a good deal rarer.

So, to the be-vag'd members of this fair forum:

- Among those who can have a vaginal orgasm regardless of need for clit assistance, does it feel different from a clitoral orgasm? Which do you prefer?

- To those who need clit stuff to orgasm (which is totally okay, everyone's built differently!), do you still get pleasure from penetration? If not, are there other reasons you enjoy intercourse, or does getting plowed produce a resounding shrug?

- Thoughts on the G-spot and the A-spot, and favorite techniques for lavishing love on each?

- Do you think the configuration of your clitoris and surrounding parts plays a part in how you experience pleasure?

- If you've got toys, do they focus more on penetration or external stimulation?

- Finally, what are your favorite methods of clitoral and/or vaginal pleasure?

To everyone here with a dong that has stuck it in a pussy:

- How do you prefer to please the pussy owners in your life? Yes, getting your dick wet is great and all, but it probably won't be enough on its own.

- What intercourse positions seem to be most pleasurable for your partners?

- Did it take you some time to learn about the clitoris, its true extent, and how to pleasure it?

- Have you ever had a be-vag'd partner who just wasn't into penetration at all? What did you do instead?

- If your partner doesn't get pleasure from penetration, how do you make intercourse worth their while?

- Do you believe in the G-spot and its sisters, and if so, how do you go about that?

- What are your carnal strengths in pleasuring vulvas and the individuals attached to them? Are you skilled with your fingers? Outstanding at oral? Capable of using your penis to elicit genuine pleasure?

There's probably more, but my fat ass really needs to go on a walk. I want to see some responses by the time I get back.

Overlord_Kujo

03/08/21 10:19PM

As a bedongled member, I have always had the best results licking the clit while also fingering/rubbing the g-spot. It's reliable, and frankly shows a lot of willingness to give rather than just take. As much as I love plunging in balls deep, I've never met a girl that gets off as hard by being penetrated.

One of the hardest orgasms I've provided was an ex that I fucked while she pressed a hitachi wand against herself. Had her bent over my couch and she doused the side as she had a screaming squiting climax.

munyuu

03/08/21 10:22PM

1) It does feel different! It feels like it comes from much deeper within your body. I think I like it better for that reason alone.

2) Even if I couldn't, I really value intimacy and romance during sex, so getting stretched out by someone I really have feelings for and knowing that they really want and enjoy my body kinda gets me going. Heart orgasm I guess lol

3) I honestly wasn't really sure of the difference! I just kinda dunk my fingers in there and feel around for the right spot.

4) This is something I've never thought about. I honestly don't know!

5) A mix really. I have a couple dildos and a wand that I use regularly. It depends on my mood, but since I can get myself to cum more reliably with external stimulation I usually use the wand. I also have vibrating nipple clamps which really get me going because my boobs are super sensitive.

6) The jury's still out because I have a hunch getting eaten out would feel the best on account of my fetishes. But nobody's eaten me out before. I know, sad :<

Overlord_Kujo

03/08/21 10:24PM

munyuu said:
1) It does feel different! It feels like it comes from much deeper within your body. I think I like it better for that reason alone.

2) Even if I couldn't, I really value intimacy and romance during sex, so getting stretched out by someone I really have feelings for and knowing that they really want and enjoy my body kinda gets me going. Heart orgasm I guess lol

3) I honestly wasn't really sure of the difference! I just kinda dunk my fingers in there and feel around for the right spot.

4) This is something I've never thought about. I honestly don't know!

5) A mix really. I have a couple dildos and a wand that I use regularly. It depends on my mood, but since I can get myself to cum more reliably with external stimulation I usually use the wand. I also have vibrating nipple clamps which really get me going because my boobs are super sensitive.

6) The jury's still out because I have a hunch getting eaten out would feel the best on account of my fetishes. But nobody's eaten me out before. I know, sad :<

Lol, I'm sure someone will go downtown soon and have a taste test. Most guys are very open to eating pussy, and we like knowing we can make you feel as good as you make us feel.

munyuu

03/08/21 10:52PM

Sure fuckin hope so!!

Autogynephilia

03/09/21 12:37AM

Damn, sounds like so much fun. I wish I had a clitoris and a vagina.

Enchantress31091

03/09/21 12:59AM

Clit gives me a much more of a pulsating and intense shock, while vaginal gives me more of an overall warm feeling. Both of them are intense, but clit hits you like a truck while vaginal feels more warm and soothing.

My vag is pretty small and tight, so I often end up stimulating both even if I'm just focusing on one, not that I'm complaining of course :)

I've never been eaten out before, and my only experience is twice with a fwb who has half decent at best, so I honestly can't say much in that regard, really hope I can try it out someday. Note to cock owners reading this: learn to use your mouths and fingers too!

Everyone is different, and the most important part is experimenting with yourself to see what feels good, and relaying that information to your partner so you can both have a good time! :D
Everyone is different

NayrAfterDark

03/09/21 05:40AM

*silently takes notes*

DivineSins

03/09/21 07:04AM

As perplexing as all your questions may be, the answers will always vary due to the difference between every vagina. As I had discussed with a friend just the other day, every vagina even varies in texture as well as the tightness. As a woman who has experienced all types of orgasms, I can give you responses that apply specifically to myself and the drastic effect it has on me.

-A vaginal orgasm feels quite different from a clitoral one, as it seems to sustain by continuous prodding. Whereas very little stimuli is needed to ride out my clitoral orgasms to their end.

-I know some women who cannot receive any pleasure from vaginal intercourse due to their need of clitoral stimulation. Many do it instead to please their partner and they find pleasure in doing that.

-The configuration of my extremities plays a huge part, as they do for most. Women who have larger clits may have trouble achieving orgasm due to the spread of the central nerves for orgasming. I am fortunate enough to have a tight, small vulva, especially for a woman of my overall size.

-With toys, my focus may shift depending on how I feel at that time. There are times where I may just want a toy in my ass and not even bother with the rest, if my mood calls for it.

-My favorite clitoral toy is the Womanizer by WeVibe, an air suction toy that focuses solely on the clitoris. Favorite internal can vary, from Fun Factory's self-thrusting toys to a bad dragon with a cum tube. Mood highly impacts these things for me.

I hope this was an enjoyable response. ^.^

SapphicKitten

03/09/21 09:32AM

I'm lucky enough to be one of the ladies that can achieve both vaginal and clitoral orgasms. They're very different but I wouldn't say I prefer one or the other, depends how I'm feeling at the moment.

For me clitoral orgasm has a build up similar to a sneeze, as silly as it sounds :D It's a kind of tingling sensation that I can feel coming and the feeling is centered around my pubic region.
Whereas vaginal orgasms go through my entire body, think a VERY good massage, those also last much longer for me.
Most of the time I go for clitoral orgasms as they're very easy for me to achieve and quite honestly they feel stronger.

As for the g-spot I think mine is a little broken :D I read it's supposed to feel amazing. It and it does feel nice when I touch it but it's not the fireworks everyone talks about. Can make it easier to achieve a vaginal orgasm though, which is nice I suppose :)

Women who have larger clits may have trouble achieving orgasm

Now that is interesting, is this really true? At least it would make sense in my case as my clit is really small and very sensitive. It's hidden all the time. I can only stimulate it through the clitoral hood, if I touch it directly (with the hood pulled back) it feels very unpleasant, a little painful even.

Toys and favourite ways to achieve orgasms... I've got a lot of toys, most of them also vibrate so I can use them both internally and externally. If I'm trying to cum as soon as possible I'll just focus on my clit. But I also like to take my time so generally it's a mix of internal and external stimulation.
But unfortunately due to my current living situation I mostly just use my fingers, as it's the most silent way... :D Is it my favourite? Definitely not, but gets the job done!

I could also answer a few questions from the second part but seems having a dong is a requirement for those :p

A little post scriptum, it's a little funny to me how a few ladies before me complained they were never eaten out while for me it's the opposite, that's all I've ever experienced :D

Lana_Beed

03/09/21 08:13PM

I'll be honest, i am still confused.
I only felt a single time like i really had a different orgasm than from the clit but it was after a clitoral orgasm so i don't know if one needs each other for me or something and i can't say i prefer anything because i just need to feel more to understand, am not sure what i felt yet because it was just that single time.

I am still trying to learn about my body.
I kind of figured out my g-spot. I get very sensitive on the frond upper walls not very deep inside really. There is a spot there that just makes me shiver all over.
Combination of that with clit is really the best i can get so my favorite and it can get quite strong that i even squirt a little.
Technique is simple really. Bent fingers upwards pressing there or a fat dick with the proper angle rubbing against it while i play with my clit. If the man knows how to play with it then even better.

So i guess for now am still a clit girl but yeah penetration still feels great especially from a real dick.
Is not just the penetration itself is the whole psychology of it, of his hips hitting against yours etc. Hard to describe. Also feeling the warmth of another person inside you is a great feeling.

Not sure about A-spot. Maybe very deep inside? Maybe that is what you need for non clitoral orgasm?
Hope as i grow i master my body fully and learn how to use that to my advantage and to my partners advantage.
For now i am blind on the A-spot.

" Do you think the configuration of your clitoris and surrounding parts plays a part in how you experience pleasure?"

This question confuses me. Isn't it obvious that it does to every girl?

Toys i have a little for everything. I think i have more anal toys if anything, lol.

BumCum

07/19/21 11:25AM

I never had a vaginal orgasm. Cause I’m just that driven with clitoral. Especially when it comes to the fantasies I have where penetration is just nearly non-existent in them.

888SubBoy888

07/19/21 11:36AM

ferrousflora said:
My latest jill-off session ended in an orgasm that definitely felt more driven by my penetrative toy than my clit vibe.

Anyone with eyes can see that the clitoris is the easiest and most reliable way to female orgasm, and men would do everyone a favor to acquaint themselves with it. However, that does not mean pleasure from penetration or vaginal orgasm is a myth - it's just a good deal rarer.

So, to the be-vag'd members of this fair forum:

- Among those who can have a vaginal orgasm regardless of need for clit assistance, does it feel different from a clitoral orgasm? Which do you prefer?

- To those who need clit stuff to orgasm (which is totally okay, everyone's built differently!), do you still get pleasure from penetration? If not, are there other reasons you enjoy intercourse, or does getting plowed produce a resounding shrug?

- Thoughts on the G-spot and the A-spot, and favorite techniques for lavishing love on each?

- Do you think the configuration of your clitoris and surrounding parts plays a part in how you experience pleasure?

- If you've got toys, do they focus more on penetration or external stimulation?

- Finally, what are your favorite methods of clitoral and/or vaginal pleasure?

To everyone here with a dong that has stuck it in a pussy:

- How do you prefer to please the pussy owners in your life? Yes, getting your dick wet is great and all, but it probably won't be enough on its own.

- What intercourse positions seem to be most pleasurable for your partners?

- Did it take you some time to learn about the clitoris, its true extent, and how to pleasure it?

- Have you ever had a be-vag'd partner who just wasn't into penetration at all? What did you do instead?

- If your partner doesn't get pleasure from penetration, how do you make intercourse worth their while?

- Do you believe in the G-spot and its sisters, and if so, how do you go about that?

- What are your carnal strengths in pleasuring vulvas and the individuals attached to them? Are you skilled with your fingers? Outstanding at oral? Capable of using your penis to elicit genuine pleasure?

There's probably more, but my fat ass really needs to go on a walk. I want to see some responses by the time I get back.

I'm outstanding at giving oral, because I like giving pleasure soo much and you're better at things you love to do.

FriendofAlice

07/19/21 04:36PM

Why don't you...tell men about it?

And it's hidden under skin half the time. Eyes don't help much.

Lothar_The_Elder

07/19/21 06:41PM

munyuu said:
The jury's still out because I have a hunch getting eaten out would feel the best on account of my fetishes. But nobody's eaten me out before. I know, sad :<

Enchantress31091 said:
I've never been eaten out before, and my only experience is twice with a fwb who has half decent at best, so I honestly can't say much in that regard, really hope I can try it out someday. Note to cock owners reading this: learn to use your mouths and fingers too!

Tell your partners to either get busy or get out! Even I know ya gotta lick it before ya stick it, that's just basic good manners.

FriendofAlice said:
Why don't you...tell men about it?

And it's hidden under skin half the time. Eyes don't help much.

Get closer... Or just ask. Although it could probably be worded better, would any be-vag'd person be offended by their partner saying "I'm not familiar with this equipment and how it works. Could you give me a basic walk-through first?".

For anyone reading this thread who isn't sure exactly where the clitoris is, here's a diagram-

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For anyone who still isn't sure where to look for a clitoris or what they're looking for, watch some FtM porn. High-dose testosterone hormone replacement therapy (HRT) causes the clitoris in transmen to enlarge dramatically and you literally can not miss it. Once you've seen exactly where the clitoris is in an FtM video, you'll know right where to look for it on any person with a vagina.